#2 in panties

[c2afwife]

DD will be 4 in June and currently she is still having BM's in her panties. There have been times/periods when she did go in the potty. Now I would say most of the time it's in her panties. I am wondering what is the best way to handle this? I have talked with her about endlessly. Should I get angry? Or will that cause bigger issues? Should she be punished?

Potty training DD has been a nightmare. I had ALWAYS heard that girls were easier, and easier than boys. I have NO idea what I will do with DS! I already feel tapped out with PTing and I am SO ready for her to be done with all this! I do understand that the occasional accident CAN happen. But EVERY BM is in the panties....we're running out of them! LOL HELP!

[tallanvor]

If you can, take her to a naturopath and have her checked for sensitivities and allergies. I know, sounds crazy, but I have heard of (and have) children who have potty issues due to allergies and sensitivities. We fought with our ODD for 3 years over this issue before finding out she had a wheat sensitivity. As soon as we cut her wheat wayyyy back, issue was gone. Now if she has a problem, I can look at her diet and every time it has been when we weren't paying attention and she ate a lot of wheat.