View Poll Results: What came first? Explain please
marriage then pregnant 300 63.69%
pregnant then marriage 114 24.20%
had babies, still not hitched. 57 12.10%
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Old 07-01-2009, 09:02 AM   #11
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Re: What CAME first? Marriage or Baby?

we had a pre-marriage pregnancy, but no baby.. then got married and found out I conveived a short time after that, but again no baby... after married for a year conceived again and now have big DS to show for it :-)
so I put marriage then pregnant.

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Old 07-01-2009, 09:04 AM   #12
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we met, engaged 1 month later, married 6 months after that, pregnant 8 months after that, and again and again and again. lol
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Old 07-01-2009, 09:08 AM   #13
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Re: What CAME first? Marriage or Baby?

Planned on staying together . . . Talked about having kids . . . SURPRISE! Two lines on a stick and we decided paperwork was necessary sooner than later!

Sounds romantic, huh!

But it's love . . .
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Old 07-01-2009, 09:10 AM   #14
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Re: What CAME first? Marriage or Baby?

We got married 5/27/06, my FIL passed 8/10/06, we started TTC on my bday (the 16th of August) and I found out I was preg March 07.

We were gonna wait longer to TTC but when FIL passed DH decided life was too short to wait until we had enough "money"
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Old 07-01-2009, 09:11 AM   #15
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Re: What CAME first? Marriage or Baby?

We found out that we were pregnant with Nikolas on our 2nd anniversary! How cool is that? I think having some time alone under our belts to grow together has really helped us stay on the same page when it comes to parenting.
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DH and I both waited until we were married. DS was born a little over 2 years after we were married.
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Old 07-01-2009, 09:11 AM   #17
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Re: What CAME first? Marriage or Baby?

Depends which baby you're asking about.
My first was 4 months old when I married her father. We had two more. We're no longer together.
With my second 'set' of kids, their father and I are not married and probably never will be.
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Re: What CAME first? Marriage or Baby?

I was about four months pregnant (not showing ) at our wedding.

But we didn't get married "because" I was pregnant. Just moved the date up a few months so I wouldn't be ready to burst or already caring for a newborn. We just thought we'd enjoy the festivities more by doing things a few months earlier than we'd originally planned. The baby was just a bonus!
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We were together a total of 5 years before we got married. We lived together, got engaged, got married a year and half later, got pregnant 1 month after the wedding, and had our wonderful son 9 months later!
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Re: What CAME first? Marriage or Baby?

We got married first then had Will two months and 3 days after our first anniversary. We didn't know at the time but I was pregnant when we got married - however I had a miscarriage a week later (I was around 6 weeks when I miscarried).
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