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Old 10-19-2009, 11:47 PM   #1
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DH and I know we want at least 1 more baby. We currently have 2 DD's ages: 6 years and 4 months. Just trying to figure out if we want to try before our youngest DD is a year old or a little after. I want them closer in age like my sister and I are. DH just says it'll happen when it does...So my question is: What do you think a good age separation is? I know someone's got to have an opinion on it


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Old 10-20-2009, 05:40 AM   #2
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I think that its just a person to person basis.

My children are widely spaced due to the fact I was 18 when I had my first DD. I wanted to complete college before having more.
Our spacing is 5 years and 4 years.
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Old 10-20-2009, 05:58 AM   #3
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My DD's are 1yr apart and they are very close. Even as little as they are they love each other.

Our next is going to be spaced a bit more but that is for Mommy's sanity
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Old 10-20-2009, 06:41 AM   #4
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I was wondering the same thing. My husband thinks kids should be 2 years or less apart (that's what him and his brother are). I was 2.5 years older than my brother and 5 years older than my other brother. I got along with the youngest brother best. It's probably a case by case basis. We started trying for our 2nd so they would be 2 years apart but it hasn't happened yet so hopefully by 3 years apart.
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Old 10-20-2009, 07:39 AM   #5
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I agree that it all depends on you and what you think is best. Our first 2 children are almost exactly 3 years apart and the next 2 are also almost exactly 3 years apart. We are due with #4 just 2 weeks after our youngest daughters 2nd birthday. A little closer than we'd liked, but I think its going to be just fine. I think 2-3 years is a good age gap, myself, but thats just me. My SIL has her children 5 years apart and although the girls get along great, there is a large age gap there.
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I think it depends on the experience that you want your children to have too.

My brother and I are 23m apart, and now we're very close. In high school we even hung around the same crowd because we were in the same activities. DH and his sister are 4 years apart, and they were in the same activities too, and they don't even like each other all that much.

They say that if your children are 4-5 years apart, it's more like having an only child (or several only children *shudder*).

My oldest 2 are 3 years apart, and the middle and youngest are 4 years apart (not by choice). We're TTC right now, and if we conceived this cycle, the youngest and the newbie would be 20m. I personally would like 2-3 years apart.
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