Diaper Swappers

bccc624 · 11-11-2009, 01:52 PM

I hope I'm posting this in the right place. It all started when my fiance got H1N1 around October 20th. Then, my daughter (17months) got it around the 23rd. I took her to the doctor that morning, because she had a low fever and he said she had a throat infection and would be fine. My parents came over to visit that day, thinking everything was fine. We ended up at the ER with her having a fever over 104. She was lethargic for two days. We got home from the ER at 1am on October 28th. I woke up to knocking on my window at 2:45am. It was my parents and they had come to tell me my sister took her own life the evening before. That whole week was a blur, dealing with our daughter being sick and us grieving. We had the services that Sunday, November 1st. My parents came to stay with us after the services and left on Tuesday. They came back to stay again this past Friday, and left on Monday. But not before I got a call on Sunday morning that my fiance's oldest sister had passed away in her sleep Saturday night. Then on Monday, I went over to check on a friend of mine who is dealing with her husband cheating on her. I walk in to her cutting herself up and down her arms with a steak knife. I waited with her for the ambulance to show up. Now, I just got a call about 30 minutes ago that my fiance's aunt passed away. I don't know how much more we can handle. This is really getting rough. I hope things get better for us soon...

chloecat · 11-11-2009, 01:55 PM

oh wow mama!!! big big hugs and prayers coming your way. just sit down, breathe. hug your baby and your fiance and take another breath. it will get better and you'll get through it. just keep praying

Sweet_Fantasy_Fox · 11-11-2009, 02:22 PM

sending prayers!

Charitys*Creations · 11-11-2009, 02:25 PM

what a rough couple of weeks. (((((((BIG HUGS)))))) prayers being said for you and your family.

bccc624 · 11-11-2009, 03:09 PM

Thanks so much, I really appreciate it.

THBVsMama · 11-11-2009, 05:05 PM

Oh my gosh

I'm so sorry for all you have been going through. Sending prayers your way.

maureen73 · 11-11-2009, 05:59 PM

My goodness...I'm so very sorry and will send prayers your way.

Tanilovelol · 11-12-2009, 12:42 AM

Oh sweetie, just seek the Lord, he has the comfort and strength for you that will sustain you. Praying for you and your hunny!

mugsywebb · 11-12-2009, 12:48 AM

(((((BIG HUGS)))))) all of those things are so much to take in, and all at once is definently overwhelming. Sending prayers to your family!

bccc624 · 11-12-2009, 06:44 AM

Thanks to everyone for the very kind words, my family and I greatly appreciate it.

11-11-2009, 01:52 PM	#1
bccc624 Registered Users Join Date: Mar 2009 Posts: 2,200 Ratings: 25 Feedback: 100% My Mood:	So much is happening all at once... I hope I'm posting this in the right place. It all started when my fiance got H1N1 around October 20th. Then, my daughter (17months) got it around the 23rd. I took her to the doctor that morning, because she had a low fever and he said she had a throat infection and would be fine. My parents came over to visit that day, thinking everything was fine. We ended up at the ER with her having a fever over 104. She was lethargic for two days. We got home from the ER at 1am on October 28th. I woke up to knocking on my window at 2:45am. It was my parents and they had come to tell me my sister took her own life the evening before. That whole week was a blur, dealing with our daughter being sick and us grieving. We had the services that Sunday, November 1st. My parents came to stay with us after the services and left on Tuesday. They came back to stay again this past Friday, and left on Monday. But not before I got a call on Sunday morning that my fiance's oldest sister had passed away in her sleep Saturday night. Then on Monday, I went over to check on a friend of mine who is dealing with her husband cheating on her. I walk in to her cutting herself up and down her arms with a steak knife. I waited with her for the ambulance to show up. Now, I just got a call about 30 minutes ago that my fiance's aunt passed away. I don't know how much more we can handle. This is really getting rough. I hope things get better for us soon...

11-11-2009, 01:55 PM	#2
chloecat Registered Users Join Date: Mar 2007 Location: Deep in the Hundred Acre wood Posts: 10,396 Ratings: 1006 Feedback: 100% My Mood:	Re: So much is happening all at once... oh wow mama!!! big big hugs and prayers coming your way. just sit down, breathe. hug your baby and your fiance and take another breath. it will get better and you'll get through it. just keep praying __________________ Meagan--wifey to my brave DH and mama to 3 trying for but mostly i'm MEG A ROO'S DESIGNS IS CLOSING SHOP. ALL ITEMS ON HYENA CART ARE WHAT'S LEFT--NO FURTHER CUSTOMS TO BE MADE. PLEASE CHECK THE MAIN WEBISTE FOR DIAPER FABRICS AND SEWING NOTIONS

11-11-2009, 02:22 PM	#3
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11-11-2009, 02:25 PM	#4
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11-11-2009, 03:09 PM	#5
bccc624 Registered Users Join Date: Mar 2009 Posts: 2,200 Ratings: 25 Feedback: 100% My Mood:	Re: So much is happening all at once... Thanks so much, I really appreciate it.