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Old 05-26-2006, 09:08 AM   #11
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It's not your fault. No matter what happened as a teenager, it is not your fault. It is nature and it sucks.

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Old 05-26-2006, 09:21 AM   #12
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So sorry for your loss. I have had 2 miscarriages, and it is easier said then done...BUT DO NOT BLAME YOURSELF!
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Old 05-26-2006, 09:24 AM   #13
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Oh I am so sorry to hear that I know it's hard to NOT blame yourself but you really can't do that as I am sure you had nothing to do with it. Take care of yourself, take it easy for awhile.
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Old 05-26-2006, 09:29 AM   #14
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I am so sorry!
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Old 05-26-2006, 09:46 AM   #15
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I had an abortion when i was a teenager because i was raped. I didnt want to keep the baby i wasnt even out of high school and really didnt have my head in the right place so i feel when something like this happens its my fault.
I feel horrible now that I have both my girls that i let that little one go like i did but i was young and stupid. I now realizse someone else could have given that baby a great life, but its all in the past. I know this is what was meant to be but why does it hurt so much. He also gave me some ambien and my dad is on his way to get the girls so they will stay there tonight and i will take an ambien this afternoon and rest a bit........

thanks for the hugs i just want it over with.
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Old 05-26-2006, 09:54 AM   #16
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I'm so sorry for you loss. MC is a horrible thing to go through. It's not your fault no matter what you did in the past. I will be praying for you.

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Old 05-26-2006, 10:04 AM   #17
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reguardless of the choices you made mama it is NEVER your fault for a mc!!
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Old 05-26-2006, 10:13 AM   #18
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Oh krissie - my heart hurts for you! I'm praying for you - praying that you are released of that guilt. You are an adult now and your decisions in the past are the past and God knows your heart and He loves you! I'm praying for you and your family!
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Old 05-26-2006, 10:21 AM   #19
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thanks mamas........coming off and on the laptop has taken my mind off it a bit. Dh is coming home around 3 he is in winston salem so its as fast as he can get here. I feel like crud so i think im gonna just relax and try to take my mind off it all.
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Old 05-26-2006, 11:12 AM   #20
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I'm sorry for your loss(((HUGS)))
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