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Old 05-10-2010, 03:29 PM   #1
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Terrible Mothers day!

So first off, I got a BFN. So i was depressed. Next AF started, so I was hurting like no other. I mean, it has me in the bathroom crying every month.Then, Ryan didn't get me a gift, let me sleep in, nothing. He changed one diaper. Big whoop. And it was only a wet one. I was up at 9, he didn't get up until 2. then he took a nap, and 9 pm, and went back to bed at midnight. I had to do everything. Plus, was hurting. When I tried to talk to him about it, he said "you're not my mom,I don't have to do anything for you."
I tried to explain to him that mothers days is a day to let all moms take a day off, he got angry. And I told him Rohan wasn't old enough to dio anything for me yet, so he had to do it, until he was. His response "no"

I'm the one that gets up in the middle of the night (he hasn't done that since rohan was 2 weeks old, and I had to ask him to do it.), I stay up late with him, get up early with him, cook dinner, and clean the house. And what do I get on my ONE day a year? NOTHING!

And they wonder why no one gives a crap about fathers day?

needless to say, I spent most of my mothers day crying in the bathroom, from either physical pain, or emotional.

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I am sorry hun.
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I am so sorry!! ((hugs))
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"you're not my mom,I don't have to do anything for you."


not cool.
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Thanks mamas. I knew I wasn't alone in feeling he should have done something for me.
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Re: Terrible Mothers day!

Don't worry mama, I got treated the same way... Basically something along the lines of, "Your not my momma" "why do I have to get you anything" well my response is when our kids are to young to understand what mother's day is, and don't know how to make their own gifts for me, then you get to do it!!!

Gesh men just don't understand... At all..

I also spent the day in the bathroom crying.... I was upset, still am today, cause he is treating me like crap again today bringing up old news, claiming that is why he did not do anything for me on Mother's Day...
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Don't worry mama, I got treated the same way... Basically something along the lines of, "Your not my momma" "why do I have to get you anything" well my response is when our kids are to young to understand what mother's day is, and don't know how to make their own gifts for me, then you get to do it!!!

Gesh men just don't understand... At all..

I also spent the day in the bathroom crying.... I was upset, still am today, cause he is treating me like crap again today bringing up old news, claiming that is why he did not do anything for me on Mother's Day...
I'm sooo sorry mama. I don't see why guys don't get it. I hope your days turns around soon.
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I'm sorry but I NEED to know why you're TRYING to make more babies with a man who doesn't seem to respect or appreciate the things you to for the child you already have together...
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He's only recently started acting this way. He normally is a very sweet man.Actually, it's been since I lost my my job.
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