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Old 05-24-2010, 08:15 PM   #1
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Would you remove him from your friends list?

I had this guy friend request me that I went to HS with. He sent me 2 requests and I ignored both b/c I don't really like being friends with people of FB, unless I talk to them IRL. Well 3rd time he sends me a friend request, I accept it. As soon as I do, he pops up and chats with me all the time. At first it was typical "how are you?" and "what have you been up to the last 10 years?" type questions. Then he asked me to tickle him!!! Holy Cow. I was completely freaked out and told him I would never ever do that. He then even offered to pay me. He insists there is nothing sexual about it.
Well he never mentioned it again, but he wants to chat every single time I am on FB. If I mention DH he changes the subject and asked me if I was happy in my marriage. (red flag right?)

Well it made DH really uneasy, (as it did me) so I removed him from my friend list. So far he has sent me 2 more requests I both ignored. Today he sent me a message asking me why I deleted him. I told him it was out of respect for my husband. The whole thing is just weird.

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Old 05-24-2010, 08:19 PM   #2
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IMO you did the right thing. I would go in and block him so that he cant even PM you....
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Old 05-24-2010, 08:20 PM   #3
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yeah totally creepy. i would keep him off of it also.
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Old 05-24-2010, 08:23 PM   #4
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i agree with the other people that's just not right!!
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Old 05-24-2010, 08:24 PM   #5
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i would delete and block him. he sounds like a creeper. i recently accepted a friend request from a guy i knew and he messaged me and told me to text him and gave me his number, so i told him " i dont think thats appropriate, were both married." he didnt message back but he IMd me and said "hey hun" so i deleted his butt.
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Yeah that is weird. I would block him too.
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Old 05-24-2010, 08:28 PM   #7
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Yes, you definitely need to block him. That way he cannot bother you again, and you won't have to worry about anything. Oh, and I always make sure all my pictures and stuff are only available for friends to see. I don't want creepers looking at my family!
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Way creepy. I think you did the right thing.
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UMMMM YEAH!! Creepy!!! I would have blocked him too!!!
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You did the right thing, and I would block him
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