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Old 05-24-2010, 08:40 PM   #11
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All my pictures are private, pretty much everything I have is "friends only"
Thanks for the input though. I felt kind of bad, like what if he isn't a creep and just lonely? He sent me a message back and said he understands and he is sorry he said anything to make my hubby feel uneasy. Well, hes gone now and doesn't have my email address so I guess I don't need to worry.

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Old 05-24-2010, 08:45 PM   #12
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IMO you did the right thing. I would go in and block him so that he cant even PM you....
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Old 05-24-2010, 08:45 PM   #13
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yeah, that's just a little too much, IMO. You totally did the right thing!
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Old 05-24-2010, 08:49 PM   #15
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Tickle him? Not even my husband asks me that!

What a freak. You did the right thing by deleting this stalker...Now BLOCK him...
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You did the right thing.
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I would absolutely delete and block.

I've also stopped responding to friend requests. I think as long as there is a pending request, FB doesn't suggest you as a friend for them, but once you ignore it it starts suggesting you again.

I also don't like FB chat in general, so I always have it show me as offline so people don't try to start conversations with me.
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Yep, delete and block, bye bye! I did that not to long ago to a guy from HS. This guy had issues, I do believe he was abused, emotion, physically and probably even sexually by a family member and bipolar. He found me on FB, but asked my sister if I was the Stacey he thought I was, so she messaged me and told me. He then requested to add me, so I accepted. Then he tried to talk to me every time i was on FB, and kept mentioning meeting my family. He also told me his ex wife had a restraining order and he hadn't seen his almost 4 yr old since she was one. After him repeatedly chatting w/ me, I just deleted and blocked him w/ no warning.
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I had a guy like that on my list that I worked w once. I would keep my on line status up and he would constantly want to chat w me or ask me out.
ick. thats not why I am on facebook. after about the 5th no, and many ackward conversations and me trying to "hide" I deleted him, to where he wanted to be friends again so I blocked him too.
so glad I am done w that.
in your situation he way overstepped his boundary and you did the RIGHT thing but i think you should block him too
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All my pictures are private, pretty much everything I have is "friends only"
Thanks for the input though. I felt kind of bad, like what if he isn't a creep and just lonely? He sent me a message back and said he understands and he is sorry he said anything to make my hubby feel uneasy. Well, hes gone now and doesn't have my email address so I guess I don't need to worry.
I totally know what you mean, that's what I thought about the person I blocked. I just don't think about it, and then I don't worry about it. It's not up to you to keep him from being lonely!
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