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Old 05-24-2010, 09:32 PM   #21
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Block the weirdo. He isn't respecting your boundaries, so it's time for bigger and better ones.

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Old 05-24-2010, 09:32 PM   #22
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Re: Would you remove him from your friends list?

Umm...yeah. I'd add him to the block list so he can't search for you anymore and send you requests.
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Old 05-24-2010, 10:19 PM   #23
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Seriously - if you're going to creep someone out anyway, why would you choose to ask to be tickled?

Yeah, I'm going to go with BLOCK!
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Old 05-25-2010, 06:27 AM   #24
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Block him. But if you have friend requests you really don't want to honor, don't click "ignore". If you ignore them, they can keep sending requests. If you just leave it in your friend request queue, they can't send you another one.
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Old 05-25-2010, 06:32 AM   #25
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Ignore/Block.

I never 'friend' anyone that I went to HS w/ that I hadn't spoken to since graduating.

I've had four people try to 'friend' me recently and I can't, for the life of me, remember even speaking to them in high school. Strange.
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Old 05-25-2010, 06:33 AM   #26
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I don't think anyone should ever feel pressured to have someone as a "friend" on FB. It's a leisure activity, for pete's sake! It shouldn't be a stressful place. It sounds like you made the right choice, OP.
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Old 05-25-2010, 08:09 AM   #27
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WOW! That is creepy. You did the right thing. I had an ex-bf who requested me and I denied him out of respect to my dh.
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Old 05-25-2010, 08:36 AM   #28
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Seriously, take the next step and block him. He may be kept at bay for now.. but you dont want to run the risk of him messaging you again.. block.
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Old 05-25-2010, 08:52 AM   #29
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Yea Mama that is kinda creepy. I would block him.
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Old 05-25-2010, 09:58 AM   #30
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Yeah I kinda had a similar incident on fb. There was this guy that was (as mean as this sounds) not the "in" crowd. All my friends were cheerleaders and ball payers and what-not, but I have never been the type to "snub my nose" at people. I always tried to be friendly to everyone. Well this particular person was someone that I have "known" since I was maybe 12, but never really talked to. He sent me a friend request and I accepted. Every once in a while he would pop up to chat but it was about random things. Then he asks me one night while I am on so late. I said I'm always on fb this late, I don't go to bed until around 2 because that's when kids are asleep, DH is asleep and I can surf the internet in total peace. He asked what I was going to do and I said nothing really. What about you? (didn't know what else to say). He told me I didn't want to know. I was like "Ok..." and changed the subject very quickly. But he came back to it. Basically he proceeded to tell me that he fantasized about women. I told him he was married and he said it was ok to look. I ended the conversation.

In the mean time I am chatting with this other guy I went to school with-have known him forever. He is super smart (he's now a teacher), he's the tennis coach, his dad is a preacher...all around good guy. Never has touched a cigarette or a drug or anything. I told him what this other guy was saying and he proceeds to tell me that sometimes he fantasizes about ME!!!! OMG!

I don't have the heart to delete them, especially the second guy. So I just quit getting on fb so much and definately not late at night. And I didn't tell DH because he would flip (he is definately the jealous type) and make me delete my account.
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